Why We Fight
Most conflict doesn’t start with hate, but with misunderstanding. Learn how seeing what others see, letting go of what doesn’t matter, and fighting for what does can heal complicated relationships.
January 25, 2026 | Pastor John Hill
Discussion Questions
Print- Where have you had a misunderstanding with someone that caused conflict or hurt?
- Do you think most of your relationship problems come from misunderstanding or unforgiveness? Why?
- Which of these is hardest for you: seeing their perspective, letting things go, or fighting for what really matters?
- Is there someone in your life you don’t understand right now? What do you think they might be seeing differently than you?
- What’s one thing you’ve been fighting about that probably doesn’t matter—and one thing that really does matter?
