The Real Cost Of Sin

Sin doesn’t just hurt you—it damages your relationships and your community. In this powerful message, we explore Steps 8 & 9 of spiritual recovery: making a list of those we’ve harmed and making amends. Freedom comes when we face the cost of sin—and choose to bring restoration.

May 4, 2025 | Pastor John Hill

Discussion Questions

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How does the metaphor of “dead grass patches” help you understand the impact of your sin on the people around you?
In what ways have you seen personal actions or attitudes affect relationships or community health, either positively or negatively?
Why do you think making amends (Steps 8 and 9) is emphasized as a key part of healing relationships and preventing relapse into sin?
Have you ever experienced personal freedom or deeper connection after making an amends?
What are some modern “anchors” or hidden sins that people carry which create dead spots in their relational “yards”?
How can we become more aware of these and begin to deal with them in community?
Do you have dead spots in the land of your relationships you need to address?
Who in your life do you need to make an amends to?