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How Do You Love When They Don’t Love Back?
Have you ever felt like you’re always showing up for everyone else, but somehow nobody shows up for you the same way? We can spend a lot of our lives keeping score of who called, who noticed, who helped and who didn’t. But what if we’re asking the people around us to give us something they were never meant to provide? This Sisterhood message is about where our need for love begins and what happens when we stop protecting our love and start giving it away.
October 2, 2026 | Kristin Hill
Discussion Questions
1. Where do you notice yourself keeping score in your relationships?
2. Who are you looking to for love that only Jesus can give? (1 John 4:11–12)
3. When have you held back love because you felt you didn’t have enough? (Exodus 16:17–18)
4. Is there any “rotten love,” like resentment or self-protection, you need to let go of? (Exodus 16:19–20)
5. Who is one person you’ll give love to this week?
