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Fix Your Marriage

Your marriage can be restored. Learn the 4 keys to rebuilding trust, restoring intimacy, and reigniting love—no matter where you’re starting from.

September 28, 2025 | Bob Merritt

Discussion Questions
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  1. The message highlights that “love isn’t a feeling, it’s a behavior.” How does that definition of love challenge or encourage you in the way you approach relationships?

  2. The Walgreens story illustrated how small conflicts can escalate. What are some practical ways couples can “move toward each other” in moments of tension rather than pulling away?

  3. Ephesians 4:2 calls us to “make allowance for each other’s faults.” What does it look like in everyday life to show grace for your spouse’s (or close friend’s/family member’s) imperfections?

  4. John Gottman talks about giving and receiving “bids” through small gestures. How might practicing small, intentional acts of kindness or attentiveness change the dynamic of a relationship?

  5. The final non-negotiable was “eliminate all others.” What are some boundaries or habits that can help protect a marriage or relationship from outside distractions or temptations?