Dinner Time Dysfunction

Christmas doesn’t always look the way we expect it to. Family tension, distractions, and old hurts can quietly drain the joy from the table. In this message, we look at Jesus’ surprising words about becoming like children—and how presence, joy, humility, and forgiveness can heal dysfunction and restore what really matters this season.

December 14, 2025 | Pastor John Hill

Discussion Questions

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What part of your family gatherings feels most difficult right now, and how much of that comes from unmet expectations?
Which childlike trait do you struggle with most: participating, being present, showing joy, not comparing, or forgiving? Why?
How does comparison (past Christmases, other families, or future expectations) steal joy from the moment you’re in?
Is there a small or “petty” hurt you’re still holding onto that affects the atmosphere at the table?
What is one simple, childlike choice you could make at your next gathering that could change the tone—even if no one else changes?